* enable client relay profiling by default
* macos dns fixes
* improve peer profiling algorithm to track timeouts vs failures
* remove debug ioctl call in tuntap code
* use ub_wait instead of ub_process as that was what was there before
* const correctness
* DRY out checking for SIIT
* typofix
* correct name
* run unbound stuff in another thread because LOL windows
* because unbound runs in another thread callbacks for libunbound need to be wrapped in a deferred call so they are done in the logic thread
* bump sqlite3 dep because it's gone, repin hash.
llarp::dns::Message does not fully support DNS packets,
so converting the upstream response to one will not work
for all query types. Also it is kinda silly to begin with,
as the upstream reply is already a network packet, ready to go.
