Clear application map connection entry earlier

llarp/link/connection.hpp

@@ -26,8 +26,3 @@ namespace llarp::link
         bool is_relay = true);
   };
 }  // namespace llarp::link
-
-/*
-  TODO:
-    - make control_stream a weak pointer?
-*/

llarp/link/link_manager.cpp

@@ -285,7 +285,10 @@ namespace llarp
                 auto defer_to_incoming = other < router().local_rid();
 
                 if (defer_to_incoming)
+                {
                   itr->second->conn->set_close_quietly();
+                  itr->second = nullptr;
+                }
 
                 log::critical(
                     logcat,
@@ -464,10 +467,13 @@ namespace llarp
 
     if (auto conn = ep.get_conn(remote); conn)
     {
+      log::critical(logcat, "Dispatching {} request to remote:{}", endpoint, remote);
       conn->control_stream->command(std::move(endpoint), std::move(body), std::move(func));
       return true;
     }
 
+    log::critical(logcat, "Queueing message to ");
+
     _router.loop()->call([this,
                           remote,
                           endpoint = std::move(endpoint),

llarp/link/link_manager.hpp

@@ -157,7 +157,7 @@ namespace llarp
 
     friend struct link::Endpoint;
 
-    std::atomic<bool> is_stopping;
+    std::atomic<bool> is_stopping{false};
 
     // sessions to persist -> timestamp to end persist at
     std::unordered_map<RouterID, llarp_time_t> persisting_conns;