* add srv records in RCs if we have any
* add mechanism to add SRV records for plainquic exposed ports
* resign and republish rc or introset on srv record changes
* add lokinet_add_bootstrap_rc function for adding an rc from memory
* prevent stack overflow on error closing connection in quic
* add in memory nodedb
* refactor how convotags are set as active
* add initial stubs for endpoint statistics
* refactor time stuff to be a bit cleaner
* update lnproxy script with more arguments
* wire up last of the quic stuff
* clean up udp packet generation code
* pass EndpointBase not quic tunnel for quic stuff
* add {n,h}uint16_t::FromString
* add nuint_t::FromString
* make AlignedBuffer::IsZero non constant time call for speed