Step 1 of removing abseil from lokinet.
For the most part this is a drop-in replacement, but there are also a
few changes here to the JSONRPC layer that were needed to work around
current gcc 10 dev snapshot:
- JSONRPC returns a json now instead of an optional<json>. It doesn't
make any sense to have a json rpc call that just closes the connection
with returning anything. Invoked functions can return a null (default
constructed) result now if they don't have anything to return (such a
null value won't be added as "result").
* Import cxxopts to replace getopts usage
* Add visual studio build things
* Fixup abseil build parts
* Replace __attribute__((unused)) with ABSL_ATTRIBUTE_UNUSED
* Fixup minor windows build issues
* Replace getopts usage
* Temporarily fixup .rc files
* More minor windows fixes
* Get a working build
* Revert .rc files
* Revert changes to nodedb
