* introset path haodver tweaks
* improve warn/error messages to convey more information
* dont block on queue insertion
* reset convotag on decrypt/verify fail
* add multiple ready hooks on outbound context
* lookup introsets from close routers on dht
* continue to tick dead sessions so they expire their paths
* introset spacing
* reduce lns lookup diversity requirement for speed
* add a function to send reset convotag message
* only have 1 outbound context at a time
so it doesn't time out and get into a state that's totally screwed.
add virtual function service::Endpont::DefaultPathAlignmentTimeout() to get the timeout for path alignment
and use it for resetablishing outbound sessions
* increase publish introset timeout so that it does not time out on the network
* remove pedantic log warn
* make sure the path we are using for replying on inbound sessions is alive
* include convotag in log message so we know wtf is going on
* appease tom's autism, improve log message text
* add srv records in RCs if we have any
* add mechanism to add SRV records for plainquic exposed ports
* resign and republish rc or introset on srv record changes
* llarp::service::NameIsValid was not checking that the tld was .loki, add this check.
* make link layer initial connection timeout 5s not the session activity timeout which happens to be 60 god damn seconds.
* add lokinet_add_bootstrap_rc function for adding an rc from memory
* prevent stack overflow on error closing connection in quic
* add in memory nodedb
* refactor how convotags are set as active
* add initial stubs for endpoint statistics
* refactor time stuff to be a bit cleaner
* update lnproxy script with more arguments
* wire up last of the quic stuff
* clean up udp packet generation code
* pass EndpointBase not quic tunnel for quic stuff
* add {n,h}uint16_t::FromString
* add nuint_t::FromString
* make AlignedBuffer::IsZero non constant time call for speed