on apple write packets back to interface when it is for us because that does not have a route spec for the interace ip on loopback as apple finds having sensible defaults bothersome internally

llarp/handlers/tun.cpp

@@ -25,6 +25,7 @@
 #include <llarp/rpc/endpoint_rpc.hpp>
 #include <llarp/util/str.hpp>
 #include <llarp/dns/srv_data.hpp>
+#include <llarp/constants/platform.hpp>
 
 #include <oxenc/bt.h>
 
@@ -1066,6 +1067,15 @@ namespace llarp
         src = pkt.srcv6();
       }
 
+      if constexpr (llarp::platform::is_apple)
+      {
+        if (dst == m_OurIP)
+        {
+          HandleWriteIPPacket(pkt.ConstBuffer(), src, dst, 0);
+          return;
+        }
+      }
+
       if (m_state->m_ExitEnabled)
       {
         dst = net::ExpandV4(net::TruncateV6(dst));